Hi everyone and happy Tuesday! Hope you are having a good week thus far after the holiday weekend. I had a great weekend. I went to the beach, relaxed, and I read this awesome book, The 5 Love Languages. It’s so interesting how we view ourselves and our relationships. Did you ever think that maybe it’s because each person loves in a different way? I know that my love language is “words of affirmation” and that my boyfriend’s love language is “quality time.” We use to bicker because I would have the tv on when he came home from work and he’d be trying to talk to me and I’d say 5 more minutes or whatever. And I’d get upset because I felt that every time I got dressed up he should say I look great or something like that. Now I am learning that because everyone loves differently that if you don’t learn your significant others love language you will be constantly craving your own love language. So now I feel great about our relationship. He does all of these nice things and takes the time to talk and spend time with me. I know he understands I crave words so because I am noticing all the nice things he does and loving him the way he needs to be loved he will understand why I need the things I do. Relationships are work and if you put in 100% you will get 100% back.
Happy week! Gotta run and get some things done. Let me know if you read this book or have other books that I can read and share with my readers and clients.